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Coordinating
reminiscence sessions
Reminiscence sessions mean more than just talking to other
people about things from your past. During these meetings, the
group monitor has to stimulate participants by various means,
in order to bring back as many memories as possible. Thus, he
should properly know the topics to be discussed and prepare
appropriate stimulation techniques. For a better performance
of the participants, we suggest a circular arrangement of the
chairs, so that all participants should be able to clearly see
and hear one another. If the group includes hypo-acoustic patients,
these should best be placed next to the monitor, who will be
at any time ready to repeat or write down any information that
hasn’t been well heard or understood. Do not haste any participant;
let them take the time they need to think and explore their
memory. It is equally not recommended to skip quickly from one
activity to another. Some individuals require more time in order
to bring back memories, put these into words and thus answer
a specific requirement. Usually, once brought back long forgotten
memories, people experiences an intense feeling of satisfaction
and content, which also leads to an increasing self esteem due
to the fact that patients themselves are astonished by their
own performances. Reaching this achievement needs no haste and
a lot of patience. The group monitor should avoid any questions
that participants cannot answer or impies just one word as an
answer. It is recommended to chose questions that offer the
freedom of open answers. Show a real interest towards what people
have to say, without shouting or making fun of anything any
participant does or says. A good monitor should not put him/herself
in the spotlight and talk a lot about him/her knowledge or experience.
Each story told during these sessions should be properly and
visibly valued, each contribution being important and interesting.
We recommend monitors to encourage al members to interact with
one another and try to avoid one-sided communication, that is
with the monitor him/herself. This can be done by kindly asking
somebody to repeat loudly something that he/she whispered to
the monitor, so that everybody should hear the message and participate.
It is essential to create multiple connections between reminiscence
activities of various participants. For example, two people
belonging to the same group, that have lived during childhood
in the same neighborhood, can be encouraged to share with one
another their memories, starting from this common ground. Here
is just one of the many methods to start such a communication
net: “Miss X., you told us you liked during childhood in the
Colentina area. Remember, Mister Y. told us last week about
himself having lived for 15 years in this neighborhood. You
could ask him about where exactly his house was, what school
he went to, and so on.”. Another practical method of stimulating
participants to interact and communicate with one another is
by allowing participants to discuss and work in pairs, to look
at some pictures in small groups, etc.
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